Learn to Hate your Wife

We talk a lot in Christian circles about how to love our
wives, and rightly so.  But I fear that
we neglect another command of our Lord, which is that we must hate our wives.  And I do not believe these are separate
commands in tension, which we must learn to balance; I do not believe we can
learn to love our wives until we learn to hate them first.
“If anyone comes to
Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and
sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple.” (Luke 14:26 NKJ)
What is Jesus commanding us to do here exactly?  A similar passage in Matthew 10:37 says it a
little more gently: “He who loves
father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or
daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.” (Matt. 10:37 NKJ)  Some interpreters
reading the Luke passage simply explain it away with the Matthew passage; Jesus
isn’t telling us to actually hate our family members, but just to love them
less than Jesus. 
But those aren’t the
words that Luke uses.  He quotes Jesus as
saying “hate”, and sound Biblical exegesis tells us that while
Scripture certainly must interpret Scripture, we should not simply explain away
one part of the Bible with another.  The
word “miseo” translated there “hate” is used by Luke in
other places to describe the hatred that followers of Jesus would experience
from the world (Luke 6:22; 21:17).  Also in Luke 16:13 we are called to choose between loving God and
loving the world; Jesus tells us we will love one and “hate” the
other.  This is not a matter of loving
one less than another; Jesus presents it as a choice.
This is also what I
believe Jesus is telling us in Luke 14. 
We must choose.  Following Christ
always has costs; in Luke 14 Jesus goes on to tell us to count the cost of
discipleship.  I don’t know a single
serious Christian that hasn’t lost relationships as a result of being a
Christian.  We are faced with a choice,
many times in our lives- either we can have a good relationship with some loved
one in our lives, or we can be faithful Christians, but we can’t have
both.  The Christian should never be the
one forcing this choice on others; being a Christian never means shunning
unbelievers.  But it is the unbeliever that
forces the choice on us.  Jesus tells us
in many places, like Luke 6:22 and 21:17, that the world naturally detests the followers of Christ, and will pressure
them to compromise their faith.  Many in
the world will only have a relationship with the Christian if the Christian
softens or downplays or even denies aspects of his faith that the world finds
repulsive.  (Exhibit:  Tim Tebow)
Where is the ultimate
source of our happiness and satisfaction? 
In Christ, and only in Him. 
Family is a great blessing from God, but family can never provide for me
what Christ provides for me.  I am
blessed to have a good family, but God may one day take that away from me.  He can still provide for me and comfort me
even without my family.  And if I expect
my wife or my parents or my children to be for me what only Christ can be, the
ultimate source of joy, of significance, of contentment, in my life, then I
will put a burden on my family that they can never bear.  A great many problems in families come from
just this error; a man comes to hate his wife because he expected her to
satisfy his every desire, to give him full contentment, which she can never do.
This points us to the
irony of the Christian life, an irony well expressed by Jesus’ statement
above.  A man who loves his wife above
all will ultimately come to hate her. 
But a man who learns to hate his wife for Christ’s sake, to be willing
to lose his wife, to recognize that his wife is a fallen sinner just like he
is, that man will finally be able to truly love his wife as the Bible tells
us.  It is a paradox; only by hating my
wife can I truly love her; whereas loving her above Christ or instead of Christ
is the most hateful thing I can do to her. 
This is just what Jesus meant when He told us that “He who loves
His life will lose it; He who loses his life for my sake will find it.”  Jesus’ statement works just as well
substituting any good thing there for the word “life”.
Many have been lost to
the faith because they could not bear to lose their loved ones.  Many have contemplated Christianity but
rejected it because they knew what their parents would say, what their spouses
or children would say.  Many who started
out in the faith lost it when one of their loved ones abandoned the faith.  To be Christ’s disciple you have to be
prepared for that.  You have to be
prepared to consign any one of your loved ones to the judgment of God, to
reject them and forget about them and write them out of your life.  Some of your loved ones will end up in
hell.  Can you bear that?  Do you love them so much that you will follow
them there?

I’m not advocating shunning.  As long as
our loved ones who reject the faith are willing to talk, willing to have a
relationship, we should be willing as well. 
And some of them might be willing to have that relationship.  But some of them won’t be, and you never know
which ones.  So Jesus is telling us to be
prepared; count the costs.  You can bet
that one day God’s finger will be laid on the idol in your heart, and you will
be asked what you are willing to lose for the sake of Christ.
So men, learn to hate
your wife.  Parents, learn to hate your
children.  Brothers, hate your sisters,
and sisters your brothers.  Be willing to
lose all for Christ; look to nothing and nobody to be to you what only Christ
can give to you.  If you cannot do that,
then you cannot be His disciple.  If you
cannot do that, you will lose your wife and children anyway; trying to hold
back things from Christ just results in losing them and losing Christ. 
But when you do that, when
you are willing to lose all for Him, to despise all, to count it all as dung in
comparison to Him, then Christ will give back to you far more than you were ever
prepared to lose for Him.  Only by
pursuing Christ alone can you ultimately have good relationships with other
people; just as only by pursuing Christ alone will you learn to truly enjoy
food, nature, work, or any other good thing that God gives us.  He gives us everything in Christ; rejecting
Christ, we can have nothing.

Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.  Everything else will be added unto you.

Competing standards

I was at a discussion tonight regarding different religions, where similarities and differences between the leading figures of Judaism, Islam and Christianity and the way that each religions dealt with these figures.  The speaker tried to show the way that founding religious leaders sometimes are mythologized, and the similar way the different religions did that.  It was fairly standard relativistic stuff, but the speaker at the same time did make a pretty good attempt to talk truly about each of these religions and the real differences that exist.  One lady in the audience asked why we focus so much on the differences.  She said, “It’s like we don’t really want peace.”  The speaker answered somewhat inconclusively.

After the talk was over, the lady came up to me and my friend that was with me and in response to some things my friend had said about the illusion of neutrality, that everyone was coming from a particular perspective, made some comments about being a lot more sure of what she knew when she was younger than she did now that she was seventy.  Then she said that we should check out the Unitarian church.

This made me think of the above comic, a perceptive look at what often happens when we try to simplify.  The person who says that we all ought to join together with other religions and simply focus on what unites us rather than what divides us is actually creating a new religion and asking all of us to leave our old faiths and join this new one.  The Unitarian lady was actually proselytizing, that which she so deplored when other religions engaged in it.  She just proved my friend right- she was pretending to be saying, “It’s dumb to fight over these things.  Let’s just forget what divides us and all just agree to get along.”  But what she was actually saying is, “My religion is right and yours are all wrong, and you should join my church.”  I don’t blame her.  That’s what I think too.  But it would be nice if we’d all just be up front about it.

Balance in the Christian Life

In Tim Keller’s book Center Church he focuses throughout the book on what he believes to be a fundamental balance in the Christian life, between legalism and antinomianism.  I appreciated this focus, though I didn’t always agree with where he found that balance on various issues.  But I think he’s right.  Legalism and antinomianism are the twin enemies of the gospel, and either one of them will shipwreck our souls.

Legalism is the desire to establish our own merit or righteousness before God, or to secure for ourselves our own blessedness through our own efforts.  Paul addresses that sin especially in Galatians and Colossians.  Legalism comes in lots of different forms.  Many of the cults like Mormonism and the Jehovah’s Witnesses are explicitly legalistic, teaching that we are required to save ourselves through our good works, to earn our places in heaven, even if they say that Christ in some fashion made it possible for us to do that.

 Antinomianism is a rejection of God’s law altogether, often under the guise of grace.  It is sometimes characterized as a belief that sanctification or repentance is unnecessary for the Christian.  I think it might be more accurate to say that antinomianism involves the denial that personal righteousness is the fundamental goal of the gospel.  Some say (and I think Keller is a little bit guilty of this) that the gospel is basically about forgiveness of sins, and that sanctification and good works are laudable, even necessary responses.  I think this is still a bit of an antinomian tendency because it divorces good works from the gospel itself, which I think is a mistake.  Freedom from sin is an essential part of the gospel.  Having a people that are free of sin is constantly presented as the whole point of the gospel- see Ezekiel 36, Jeremiah 31:31-34, etc.  So I believe that any separation of repentance and good works from the heart of the gospel itself tends in an antinomian direction.

Different people will locate the distinction a little differently though.  And it is a balance- one must avoid extremes on either side.

But the balance isn’t really like a tightrope or a high beam that a gymnast walks, where one has to avoid making any error in either direction or one will fall to one’s doom.  It’s a lot more like a bobsled run.  The bobsled may at different times go up one side of the run or the other, but gravity normally brings them back down to the center.

Christ is the bobsled run.  If we rest in Christ, then we may at times err in one direction or another, but Christ will always bring us back to Himself.  The gravity of that relationship always pulls us to the center.  With the twists and turns of life we may get pushed up one wall or the other; we may for a time be imbalanced in our thinking, but if we are in Christ we will return to a Biblical balance.  It takes a concerted and intentional effort or a really catastrophic error to get all the way out of the track.  Likewise in the Christian life, it’s never by simple accident that one slides into fullblown legalism or antinomianism.  Only if one is not resting in Christ at all can one fully escape the gravity of that relationship.

One of the ways we often get unbalanced is by fear of the other extreme.  So one starts focusing on good works and their importance to the neglect of God’s forgiveness and grace because one fears lawlessness, fears rebellion against his rightful king.  Another fears relying on his own sinful flesh and so focuses entirely on forgiveness and grace to the neglect of proper spiritual discipline.  But both really are focused on serving Christ, though in unbalanced ways.  Ultimately their dedication to Christ will correct either imbalance.  But the one who truly desires to be responsible for his own salvation will not be so corrected; lacking a focus on Christ he will fall into true legalism.  Another one desires to please himself with his own life, rejecting the rule of God’s law and using grace as a cloak for self-worship.  He will become a true antinomian.  The relationship with Christ is absent in both cases.  The problem is not a lack of theological precision, but a lack of trust in Christ.  Legalism and antinomianism therefore ultimately end up in the same place, a trust in self rather than a trust in Christ.

So it’s a mistake to live in fear of either extreme, of policing every expression and word to make sure one isn’t erring in one direction or another.  I’m all for theological precision and we should strive for it.  But fundamentally it is not theological precision which will save us from either extreme.  It is Christ.  So our focus should be on Him, on what He has done for us and what He has called us to.  That will ground us right in the Christian life, and though we may be a bit unbalanced at times we will always return to center.  The gravity of our relationship with Christ will not permit us to slide all the way out of the track to the ruin of our souls.  He will preserve us in Himself to the end.

Casper

Almost ten years ago I started this blog to mark the occasion of my moving to Limon, CO for my first ministerial charge.  Actually I was an intern at the time but I ended up being their pastor for almost a decade. It was a great experience for me, one that had many challenges, many ups and downs, but ultimately blessed me and my family in many ways.  Starting a new church plant just highlights for me all the many blessings that I had in Limon, blessings we have chosen to leave behind.  We are very thankful for all God did for us and all God taught us there.

Now we are in Casper, WY, having taken the call to plant a church here.  There are lots of changes in our lives, and we are excited to look forward to all of the new developments God will bring.  We are still in a transitional phase, with lots of things to work out, not least of them a name for our new church.  It’s kind of a big scary thing, in a lot of ways, to plant a new church.  But I just keep reminding myself that it’s God’s work and not mine.  I don’t need to be clever enough, or innovative enough, or spiritual enough or caring enough.  I just need to do my best to be faithful to what God has called a pastor to do.  He will do the work.  He said to David, “Will you build me a house?  Behold, I will build you a house.”  I’m excited to see what house God will build for Himself, here in Casper.

Thank Christ for Facebook

At Christmastime we remember to do what we should always do, which is to remember the coming of Christ into the world and the freedom from sin we have as a result.  But we were freed from a lot more than just sin.

Before Christ came, the world was largely in slavery.  All over the world, darkness ruled.  Tyrants abused, exploited and murdered their own people with impunity.  Their evil regimes were supported by the lies of paganism which taught people to live trembling in fear of the demon-filled world around them, and to be dependent on the god-men that ruled over them and exploited them.  The spread of Christianity destroyed those lies everywhere it went, and over time unleashed the creativity, industry and productivity of people everywhere it went.  The spread of Christianity has been the spread of equality and freedom, and with equality and freedom comes science, industry and economic development.

That means that we should be thanking the birth of Christ for the computer you’re reading this on, the Internet it’s being transmitted over, and even the Facebook where many of you found this link.  Just because evil people misuse those things for evil purposes doesn’t make them evil.  Every good gift of God can be turned to evil purposes, but they are still good gifts with many good uses.  Likewise thank Christ for the heated and air-conditioned homes you live in, the cars you drive, the medicines you take, the cheap and abundant wealth you experience every single day without even thinking about it.  The average person in the western world lives surrounded by wealth that would be absolutely unimaginable to Mary and Joseph in the first century before Christ.

We have this idea of gradual scientific and cultural progress over the last many thousands of years.  That is a lie of modern evolutionary materialists.  If you look at any ancient culture’s mythology, you see instead a yearning backward to a civilization and a golden age that was lost, and gradual decay and loss of technology and culture from then up to a time of relative barbarism and ignorance.  The past is usually better to the ancients. The Scriptures tell us clearly the reason for this, that as a result of sin, people lost and forgot the knowledge they used to have.  Christ reversed all that, began to break the hold of sin, leading to the great abundance of wealth and knowledge we see around us today.  And much more will follow.

The devil continues in his lies, trying to convince us that the technological abundance we see is a result of putting off the superstition of religion.  But the opposite is true.  It is religion, true religion, that enabled us to put off the superstition of paganism.  And as people in this country reject God once again, we see them sliding back into the superstitious fears of ghosts and vampires and UFOs and a hundred other things; they slip back into the darkness from which Christ saved them.  It must be a troubling thing for the Richard Dawkins of the world to realize that atheists are actually more likely to believe in ghosts than conservative Christians are.

So thank Christ- not just for your salvation (although most of all for that), but also for the Internet; for cars; for petroleum; for penicillin; and for all the wonderful things we haven’t even seen yet, but by His grace, we will.

No Shortcuts

There are no shortcuts to true godliness.

One of the features of modern American life over the last fifty years or so has been the gradually increasing disconnect between sex and marriage.  The big watershed event in that disconnect was the birth control pill.  With the coming of the pill, the most fearsome consequences of sex outside of marriage, out-of-wedlock pregnancy, could be largely avoided (or so it seemed).  The result was the sexual revolution.  The acceptance of gay marriage today is simply the inevitable consequence of the shift in attitudes that happened so many years ago.

One of the reactions that social conservatives have had to this event is to decry the birth control pill.  Roman Catholics actually forbid its use in any circumstances, and many Christians view it with extreme suspicion.  There are some interesting arguments about the pill that have to do with its possible role as an abortifacient, but many times the argument is simply to point to all the negative effects on society that came with the widespread use of birth control; the increase in divorce, the increase in promiscuity, the increase in sexually transmitted disease and the like.  It is undoubtedly the case that a great many ills in society increased dramatically in the time period following the introduction of the pill.

It is also the case that the use of pornography has increased dramatically since the introduction of the Internet.  The rate of obesity has also increased quite a bit in the last several decades, corresponding to the increase in food choices and the decrease in food costs.

Many of the solutions I have heard to the problem of pornography addiction have had to do with imposing external constraints as well.  Content filters on your computer (which can be evaded), computer positioning, passwords and the like.  But we ought to know that the Internet did not truly create any new problems.  It used to be that if a man wished to use pornography, he would have to get in his car and drive to one of those stores in the bad part of town, risk being seen, and purchase material which could then be found by his wife or kids.  When magazines like Playboy came along, then a man could get it delivered to his house in a nondescript brown wrapper, but it was still there in his house where people could find it.  The Internet just made it possible for the man to use pornography easily and anonymously, and to destroy all evidence of it afterward.

Similarly, people worrying about the bad health effects of overeating call for the regulation of certain kinds of food, changes in school lunches, educational programs and the like.  These arguments aren’t as often made by Christians, but Christians often make the same kinds of arguments about other kinds of problems.  Young men wouldn’t lust so much if only the girls dressed more modestly.  But again, immodest dress doesn’t create lust any more than bacon creates gluttony.  Men used to get excited over an exposed ankle.  Now that a great deal more than ankles is commonly exposed, men have a great more opportunities to lust.

Again, people in society used to be more commonly hardworking than they are today.  Sometimes we think that means people used to be more moral.  But consider- in the old days, if you were not hardworking, you starved.  Did that mean people worked hard because it was right and honorable before God to do so, or just because the consequences of not being hardworking were so terrible?

That is to say, external constraints have been removed.  Celebrities and rich athletes are a great illustration of this principle with their often famously immoral lives.  Are they worse people than the rest of us, or do they just illustrate what happens when the normal financial and legal constraints of life are removed?  Similarly, I do not believe that people who live with the reality of the Internet, of cheap and abundant food, of government welfare programs are therefore truly more lustful, gluttonous or lazy than people have ever been. There are just fewer external constraints restraining our sin.

But external constraints do not make us righteous people.  The goal of the New Covenant was and is the transformation of the hearts of God’s people, to be conformed to the image of Jesus Christ.  No amount of change of our external environment can make us either good or bad; they merely reveal what is in the heart already.  God desires truth in the inward parts.

Jesus said, It’s not what goes into a man that corrupts him.  It’s what comes out.  And yet we Christians continually try to restrict external environments in order to accomplish moral change.  We blame Facebook for the failure of marriages or the loss of productivity; we blame the Internet for lust and immorality; we blame food choices for obesity; we (and here I really mean we, including me) blame government welfare programs for dependency and sloth.  And so a great many churches forbid things like alcohol, tobacco or dancing, or have similar things, because of the potential for abuse.

Everything can be abused, and when the sinful heart of man is involved, everything will be abused.  And so there are no shortcuts.  The solution to overcome sin, to overcome our problems, always and only is the same thing- to throw ourselves on the mercy of God for our rebellion, accept the forgiveness of sins in Christ and submit ourselves to His rule.  The kingdom of God exists in the hearts and minds of men.  The Spirit of God goes into the hearts of the converted, of those who put their trust in Him, and changes it.  And the change that we expect to see comes through the ordinary means of grace, the normal way that God dispenses His transforming power in the hearts and minds of the elect- through the Word of God, through the Sacraments and through prayer.  As we lay hold of God’s means of grace, and by those means cultivate a relationship with the Lord, our hearts will change, and our environments will change along with it.

Mankind is created in the image of God, and was called to be in dominion over creation.  And we are in dominion.  If our hearts are corrupt, we will create corrupt environments, distorting, misusing and abusing the creation.  As we are converted to Christ, we will exercise a different kind of dominion over creation.  But spirit always dominates over substance.  Our environment never causes us to be what we are; the opposite is  always the case.  Environment may give our sin particular shapes; a man whose father is a drunk will have a particular set of temptations that other men might not have.  But environment never causes us to be what we are.  Environment doesn’t create sin in us, and therefore changing environments can’t cure the sin.  At best, changing environment will only change the appearance of your sin.

So there are no shortcuts.  Dieting is not going to cure the gluttony in your heart.  Getting off Facebook or getting rid of your video games will not make you hardworking and productive.  Canceling your Internet will not cure your lust, because the Internet didn’t create your lust in the first place.  These may be good things to do for other reasons, but they won’t do anything to decrease the sin in your heart.  The solution always comes from within, from the dying of the old man and the making alive of the new.  And that change always comes by the power of the Holy Spirit and through the means of grace, beginning with the forgiveness of sins in Jesus Christ.  As the heart and mind of man is changed, is transformed, then outward habits will follow suit.

And all of this means that ironically, for the spiritual strength and health of the elect, the removal of these external constraints may actually be a very good thing.  Before, a man could perhaps congratulate himself for staying married and not being immoral, simply because the external consequences for his doing so were so high.  That does not make the man moral, however- it just makes him a coward.  Now, the only thing that will keep us from using pornography, or make us hardworking or moderate in the use of food or other substances is what is in our own hearts, since so many of the obvious consequences are reduced.  The heart of the Christian in this society must grow strong, must grow battle-hardened.  We must create our own internal constraints on our behavior, since society will impose almost none.  But that has always been God’s real goal- not people who behaved because they had to, but people who truly loved God, who had God’s Spirit within them and who had God’s law written on their minds and hearts, who are truly God’s own people.

Living in Fear

Some of my greatest mistakes have been the result of acting out of fear.  I have been afraid of being made to look foolish, of being held in contempt, of being thought stupid or unimportant, and spoke arrogantly and rashly in order to impress people, and have paid the price.  I have feared the opinions of others and spent money on things that I did not need.  I have feared missing out on good times and wasted my time in foolish entertainment.

Different people fear different things.  We fear loss of physical safety, loss of health, loss of relationships and many other things.  A great deal of sin happens because of fear; in a way, sometimes I think all sin is committed because of fear.  And evil people constantly play on the fears of other people to manipulate and control them.

Yesterday a horrible thing happened, an incomprehensible thing.  A 20 year old man walked into an elementary school and shot a classroom full of kindergarten students to death.  Such a thing hits us on a most fundamental level; it is an abomination that such things could happen.  The young man did not appear to have a criminal record, was not an obviously identifiable threat.  It is unbearable to think that we live in a world where such things can happen at any time, in any place.

The ancient Israelites lived in a small country surrounded by much larger and stronger neighbors.  There were the Egyptians to the south and the Syrians, Assyrians or Babylonians to the north, neighbors which were at best unreliable friends and more often hostile threats.  But God told them they had nothing to fear.  They had merely to trust Him, and He would always keep them safe.  But they did not trust God.  They looked to various schemes to save them.  They would make alliances with one of these neighbors to protect them from the others; they would amass gold and silver and standing armies as best they could; they would believe that the gods of their stronger neighbors were the source of their strength and prosperity and worship those gods alongside Jehovah.  They would break God’s law in the pursuit of safety and security because they did not trust God.

This was the very first temptation that the devil used on Eve.  God had made them to be like Him.  But Satan said that God told them not to eat of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil because God knew that if they did, they would be like gods, knowing good and evil.  But they already knew good and evil– good was following God’s laws and commandments, trusting Him for all good.  Evil was disobeying God’s law and seeking our good apart from Him.  It was the very existence of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil that taught them that.  So the devil tricked them into thinking that God was holding out on them, taught them to fear that there was some good thing they could have if only they went their own way.  And when they listened to Satan- they gained nothing and they lost everything.

This is always the temptation.  We fear that God’s holding out on us, that there’s some good thing we can have if only we seek it ourselves.  A man in an unhappy marriage thinks that if only he sleeps with his coworker he will finally have happiness.  It’s always a lie.  The man always ends up worse.  Israel thought that by their schemes they would be safer- but the opposite was true.  It was their very alliances and foreign entanglements that ended up being their ruin.  All good things are God’s to give, and we will never have any good thing without God’s blessing.  He may give the rebel temporary enjoyment of His good gifts as a testimony to His goodness, but even that grace only ends up leaving the man with no excuse for refusing God’s goodness.

Whenever a tragedy like the Sandy Hook shooting happens, we will once again see the familiar specter of charlatans and evil men playing on our fear and offering us false hope.  God’s word gives a man the right to protect himself from violence, and only an evil man with evil desires would ever take that away from him.  Yet many in government, with a vested interest to make us as dependent on them and their false promises as they can, promise that if only we give up our own ability to protect ourselves, that they will protect us from the evil in the world.  But they cannot.  There is evil in the world because God put it there, to punish men for their sin and rebellion.  There is no protection from the evil in the world except from God.  When a politician comes on television and promises that if only I support his plan, he will solve a problem that is fundamental to human nature, you can be assured that such a man is a liar and a charlatan, who is only playing on your fears to exploit and oppress you for his own ends.

The solution to things like school shootings is not more laws against guns, more cops, more metal detectors, more education, more bureaucrats and social scientists and mental health professionals who don’t even believe in the existence of the soul.  The shooter yesterday already broke several laws.  What makes anyone think he would have been restrained by more laws?  And it’s not to arm teachers, though disarming them hasn’t made anyone safer.  People have a God-given right to protect themselves and their loved ones, and though self defense is no ultimate solution to anything, neither is taking away that right.

The solution to school shootings, and to all evil in the world, is to trust God and to trust the solution which God has provided.  He sent Jesus Christ, His Son, to earth to deliver His people from this evil world.  We sing a Christmas carol that says, “Come, thou long expected Jesus, born to set thy people free.  From our fears and sins release us, let us find our rest in thee.”  Jesus frees us from fear.  He is the perfect king who will sit on the throne forever.  He even now governs all things for the good of His people.  We never have to fear anything again, as long as we love and fear Him.  Even when a terrible thing like yesterday’s shooting happens, we can know that Jesus is king, and He is working all things according to His plan.  He has been given all power, He will protect the poor from the evil oppressor, and He will achieve salvation for all who put their trust in Him.

He told His disciples, when they were wondering about the meaning of a tragedy, “Except you repent, you will all likewise perish.”  And this is the real lesson of the Sandy Hook shooting, whatever the charlatans tell you.  The real lesson is that the world lies under a curse, and that such things are only the foreshadowings of what everyone’s fate will be unless we bow to the savior of the world, Jesus Christ.  Without Christ, we have no choice but to live in fear, to be enslaved by that fear, to live eternity consumed and tormented in terror of a creation that is our enemy.  But when we fear Christ, we are free from all other fear.  We need fear nothing when we know that our savior, the strength and consolation of His people, has come, and has won the battle against all our enemies.

Daily Worship

From this week’s worship notes:
Daily Worship
The Christian life is not just something that happens on Sunday.  We are called by the Scriptures to offer our whole lives as living sacrifices.  In Acts 2:46 we read that the believers assembled together daily, and again in Acts 5:42 we read that the apostles taught daily in the temple.  Hebrews 3:13 calls on believers to exhort one another daily.  1 Thessalonians 5:17 exhorts us to pray without ceasing.  The Bereans, who were praised as being of a more noble character than others, searched the Scriptures daily to evaluate the doctrine of the Apostles.
The Christian will find his spiritual life much more rich and profitable if he does not simply try to “top off the tank” every Sunday, but rather is continually drinking of the well of fellowship with God.  There is no particular commandment in the Scriptures about exactly what daily or midweek worship we are to engage in, and we should never seek to make a legalistic law of the matter, but many serious Christians have discovered that being continually in the word and prayer become much easier if one makes a regular habit of it.  A few minutes a day of Scripture reading and prayer is a world better than none at all.
Fathers or heads of household in particular need to lead their families in worship.  Children ought to be instructed of the importance of the Scriptures and prayer even before they can understand much of the Scriptures very well.  After breakfast or dinner, depending on one’s schedule, is a good time to spend a few minutes reading the Bible and discussing it with our families.

The church also often makes Bible studies available during the week, and midweek studies are, in this pastor’s experience, very profitable.  It is a time to meet and fellowship with our fellow believers, to approach different parts of the word and in a different manner, and to discuss in a more informal setting the meaning of the Scriptures and other questions that may be on our mind.
We are all busy, and a great many different activities compete for our time.  We are not Sabbatarians, meaning that we do not believe that a strict observance of one day out of seven of complete abstinence from any non-religious activities is still mandated for New Testament believers.  But it is a great mistake to think that the fourth commandment is therefore no longer relevant.  That commandment instructs us to lay hold of the means of grace, to be active in the word and prayer, and the absence of a one-in-seven observance just means that this command is true for us every day of the week.  If you wish to grow in grace and understanding, then you simply must learn to take time out of your schedule throughout the week for these kinds of activities.

Optimism

We were recently greeted with the announcement that the Supreme Court will hear cases related to gay marriage, leading to the almost certain legalization of gay marriage across the country.  The liberal left has never been satisfied before with anything short of complete domination, and therefore the results we’ve seen play out in our neighbor to the north will likely become reality here.  That will mean, at the least, that speaking against gay marriage or the practice of homosexuality will carry very big risks for any Christian.  I have some very good friends who are supporters of gay marriage.  I will be very interested to see whether they stand up for Christian pastors when they come under government attack for refusing to perform gay marriages or recognize them in their churches.

I don’t know what the future holds.  But I am not optimistic for the state of the country.  I have written a couple of posts on this in the last weeks, since the election.  But please don’t mistake that for pessimism in general.  I am not pessimistic at all.  It seems likely that Christians in this country are going to go through some hard times.  People in general are likely to go through hard times, but Biblical Christians in particular may come under particular attack, in addition to the generally bad economic and political conditions.  But the greatest growth always comes through suffering.

As I said, I am no prophet.  But I know what the Bible says.  The Bible tells us that Christians must experience persecution and tribulation.  Paul told Timothy in 2 Timothy 3:12, “Yes, and all who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus will suffer persecution.”  There the Holy Spirit tells us all that the world is and always will be hostile to Christianity, one reason I’m not a postmillennialist.  That persecution has been lesser or greater in different times and places, more or less overt, but it’s always been a reality.  Christians right now are under severe attack all over the world; in Muslim countries and in communist countries like China or North Korea the risk is imprisonment, beatings and death.  In European countries and in Canada, and increasingly in America, the risk of being a Christian presently is social ostracization, ridicule, fines and other kinds of government censure.

But as I said, I’m not pessimistic at all.  And I’m not even speaking directly of the eternal hope, of life with Christ in the new creation, though of course that can never be outside of our thinking.  I am not optimistic about the nation of America, or western civilization in general.  But why should I be?  They are manmade institutions, and all such institutions come to an end sooner or later.  Why should I be anxious for the perpetuation of an institution that allows the murder of infants?  I have four young children, and I worry about them and others their age.  I expect they will be adults in a very different world than I have been in.  But God is their God too, and will care for them too.  I can’t say that decadent and prosperous America has been particularly good for my self-discipline and trust in God anyway.

But I am very optimistic for the progress of the kingdom of God, for the church of Jesus Christ which is that kingdom’s outward manifestation.  The church is growing the most rapidly in those places where it is under the greatest attack.  In China, in India, in Africa, in the Muslim world- the church is growing rapidly.  I have heard claims, though I can’t verify them, that though the old state churches in Europe and England are dead and gone, that evangelical Christianity is on the rise.  Even in America, the growth of Christianity is not coming from the old liberal mainline churches that sold out on divorce and abortion a generation ago and thus paved the way for the trainwreck we’re now observing in this country.  Along with all that growth of course there are cults, there are heresies, there is shallow feel-good prosperity-oriented Christianity.  But that’s how Christianity has always spread.  There will be a core of faithful Christianity that believes and holds to the Bible, a shallow Christianity that might have some small effectiveness in change the underlying culture, and a lot of wackos on the fringe.  That’s how the church has always grown, and that’s how it is growing now.

The devil is beaten.  The worship of the state and its power is the worship of the beast spoken of in Revelation.  The worship of money, pleasure, entertainment, and the religious forms that support it are Babylon, the whore of Revelation.  The beast and Babylon work together to dominate the nations of the earth, and in America they’ve just about had their victory.  But the beast always turns on Babylon and kills her, something we’re also seeing in our own country right now, as the power of the state comes into competition with the power of the economy that has always supported the state in the past.  So they never succeed in establishing their empire.  Though they may have temporary victories in some times and places, Babylon was destroyed by God many millennia ago and He will never permit it to be rebuilt.  So Christianity wins.  The church goes forward.  Satan and those who support him, those who rebel against the Scripture’s teachings on marriage, on the protection of life, on sexual ethics, on economic truths, those who look to the state to save them from every problem, those whose lives are spent in the pursuit of money and pleasure and entertainment, will continue to fight against the establishment of God’s kingdom.  But God’s kingdom cannot be stopped.  Many of Satan’s loyal followers will be convinced of the superiority of Jesus Christ and His kingdom; they will see the message of hope and forgiveness and love in the cross and will reject the futile dead-end of self-worship.  And those who cling to their idols will come to nothing- producing nothing, changing nothing, advancing nothing.  They will produce only death.

Satan and his kingdom will continue to fight bitterly until the end, and they will cause suffering.  But that suffering will only make Christ’s kingdom stronger.  Just as Christ found His victory through suffering and shame, so too will Christ’s people.  In Jesus Christ there is life, and that life will have the victory.  Christ’s kingdom cannot be stopped, and the kings of the earth will bend the knee.